Dear Reader,
I easily get overwhelmed when presented with too much detail. Give me the overview or bottom line any time. Unless, as it turns out, if those details help me better understand people and relationships! So, maybe you can imagine my excitement at the new developments in psychological Type theory, some of which I'd like to share with you now (sprinkling some practical insights about your relationships, of course).
If you're new to Type, allow me to provide a little context. The theory of psychological Types is based on Swiss psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung’s work, and his book “Psychologische Typen” that was first published in 1921. He stipulates that people come into the world with a predisposition to use our brains in specific ways, and over time, we develop one or two functions that become our type of consciousness, and help define our sense of self.
He started out by noticing that people’s mental energy, or libido as he called it, was either drawn to the outer or inner world, which he called extraversion and introversion. (These technically aren’t a function, they are described as an attitude.)
Many people are already served with just this one point of insight - where they get mental energy from, and where they like to spend it. Just this one difference already explains so much when it comes to relationships, e.g. who wants to have a big wedding or who wants to have a small gathering at the county courthouse.
But it’s literally just the tip of the iceberg.
Jung then noticed that at any given time, our brain seems to be doing one of two things - it’s either processing information aka perceiving, or making decisions aka judging.
Perceiving can happen in two ways, based on the Sensation (S), so a more physical approach, or based on Intuition (N), which is a more mental approach.
Deciding can also happen in two ways, based on objective logic Thinking (T) or based on subjective values and Feeling (F). Both of these are rational functions as objective and subjective decisions are made in the mind.
These four functions can show up in both attitudes, so the 8 Jungian functions are
Unless you were around in the 1920s in Switzerland, you probably never would have heard about this theory. Luckily, in the 1940s, an American mother-daughter duo put together a questionnaire to help people like you and me figure out which functions we prefer and in which order. That became the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator(r). The MBTI(r) result is a four-letter type code that is shorthand for the underlying eight jungian functions, which can show up in 16 Types.
Many psychologists and typology experts have taken Jung's theory and expanded on it. David Keirsey came up with a Temperament theory, finding similarities between SJ, SP, NT, and NF Types. Dr. Linda Berens found another pattern in how the 16 Types express energetically, which she called Interaction Styles. John Beebe connected the 8 functions to archetypal energy depending on their position in the function order, as hypothesized by the Type code.
And Dr. Dario Nardi started putting EEG caps on his students at UCLA and started measuring neuronal activity in the neocortex. Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a brain nerd and I love this stuff!
I was certified in Dario's Neuroscience of Type approach in 2012, which was already exciting, but he's kept going and now, after analyzing EEG brain imaging for 100s of participants, he found new brain wiring patterns that allowed him to differentiate the eight Jungian functions into two distinct flavors. He calls them yin or holistic, and yang or analytic.
In his books The Magic Diamond and Decoding your Personality, he clarified that this kind of brain wiring is somewhat malleable or plastic, and that it might change over time depending on your age, sex, profession, and hobbies.
Before I share what the characteristics of analytic and holistic are: quick caveat, the challenge with all descriptions is that we like to generalize into stereotypes, so I want to point out that these are abstractions, so you will not resonate with 100% of the description 100% of the time. But if you have been wondering why your four-letter Type result maybe doesn’t really gel with how you see yourself, maybe this differentiation can help!
In other words, even though the Thinking function is in itself about objective logic, it can have a holistic flavor and hold many models lightly. This wiring may be due to socialization, so you might resonate with it, e.g., if you grew up as a woman in a society where Feeling behaviors were rewarded. So when you take a questionnaire like the MBTI(r), you might resonate more with the Feeling descriptions, although your brain actually prefers holistic Thinking.
Likewise, even though your Intuiting function is in itself more focused on imagery, symbolism, and patterns in the information you perceive, with an analytic flavor it will happily focus on one central object or figure. So your questionnaire results might give you an S for sensing, even though your brain might prefer analytic Intuition.
To my knowledge, Dario hasn't yet made a questionnaire available that would help you sort between the flavors, but if you'd like to learn more, please find his books linked above, AND I invite you to subscribe to my YouTube channel, because my plan is to publish a video a day about each of the 16 flavored functions and how they show up in relationships starting Monday, December 4th!
I'm saying this here now to help keep me accountable! Yep, in a moment of weakness I agreed to participate in a December YouTube challenge. With some buds in the Pathless Path community I'm in, we're challenging ourselves to publish a new video every day up until Christmas. Eek!
Wish me luck. ;-) Not entirely sure I'll be able to keep up with that schedule, and I already know I'll only publish on weekdays - but I'm willing to try. 😅 Hope to see some of you there!
Cheers,
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